Your
Support Network Gets You to the Finish Line
Before
I ran the Flying Pig marathon, I'd heard a great deal about the
race. One of the things that struck me most was what a friend
said about running the relay. She said she didn't like to run
the final leg of the relay because all she saw was pain and heartbreak.
Being that I'm not a front-of-the-pack runner myself, I figured
I'd get to see for myself what she was talking about. The other
thing I kept hearing about the Flying Pig was how great the crowd
support is for this race. What I found was what you see and what
you experience is all a matter of perspective.
As my relay friend
said, I did see people in pain, stretching out leg cramps and
pulled muscles, getting sick on the side of the road, and struggling
to make it to the finish line. But they did make it, and I am
convinced that the reason they made it was because of their support
network. Each support network is unique, and involves many people:
spouses, children, parents, friends, and training partners. But
the support network I did not expect to see was a support network
of caring strangers; people who came out to cheer the runners
on and stayed for all 26.2 miles. These kind strangers knew that
their support was even more important to the back of the pack
than the front.
The people on the side
of the road rang cow bells, clapped clappers, and held encouraging
signs, and
they
cheered at the top of their lungs. Kids put out their hands to
high-5 the runners. People and churches handed out oranges, candy,
and other nutrition to help the runners reach the finish line.
There were thousands of people, many of whom didn't know a single
runner out there, all showing their support. On this special day
at this special event, we were all family
and in it together
for the long haul.
One sign in particular
caught my eye. The sign read, "You're our inspiration."
I shouted out to the man holding the sign, "No my friend,
you are ours!" His sign reminded me of one of my all-time
favorite books, Gung Ho! by Ken Blanchard. The message of this
book is all about inspiration, and focuses on three principles:
Worthwhile Work.
I heard once that only one out of every three people who begin
training for a marathon actually makes it to the starting line.
Work is not much different. When training for a marathon, just
like your real job, you must believe that the work you're doing
is worthwhile, or you won't continue. How many people leave their
jobs or change careers because they don't find their work rewarding?
It's critical in work, and in athletics, that we help people find
the reward and worth of their work, or we will lose them. We need
to improve our odds in both areas.
In Control of Achieving
the Goal. In work, as in a marathon, we must keep our eyes
on the finish line, and be proactive in guiding the course to
achieve our goals. If we lose control or get off course, it's
much more difficult to finish. Focus, commitment, and dedication
drive our success
or our failure.
Cheering Each Other
On
Last, but in my opinion, most important, is cheering others on.
We often hear that the main reason people leave their employer
is that they did not feel appreciated. If we do a better job of
cheering others on and showing our support, we can make people
feel like the valuable people they are.
Like most things in
life, perception is reality. My perception, my reality, of the
Flying Pig is simple: while the road to the finish may have been
long and hard, those kind, caring strangers made me and many others
gave us the inspiration and energy we needed to get to the finish
line with a true sense of the worth of our work, the goal we achieved
and the power of a great support network who cheered us on for
26.2 miles.
If any of you reading
this were part of the cheering section along the course, thank
you! Your time, kindness, and energy meant a lot to thousands
of runners, including me. As the sign said
you are our inspiration.
And in the spirit of inspiration and cheering others on, I urge
you to follow their lead and encourage and inspire the people
you touch in every aspect of your life. It can make a huge difference.
Abel
Associates was founded in 1993, and specializes in public relations,
media relations, and crisis media management and training. In
2001, Lauren Abel purchased Creative Consortium. Creative Consortium
offers a full complement of marketing communications service,
including advertising, marketing, graphic design, market research,
and web services.
Both companies
are committed to community service as a core value of the companies.
As a result, each company works solely with clients that perform
community service.
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